We all owe ourselves dignity and self-respect. Joan Didion had this to say about self respect: "To have that sense of one's intrinsic worth which constitutes self-respect is potentially to have everything: the ability to discriminate, to love and to remain indifferent." I don't agree with large swaths of her essay, but this gave me pause. It's time for me to learn indifference. lodo
Lodo I too am in awe of your ability to remain a true friend to your W after everything. I am trying to do the same with my H, but I've come to a place where I need to be my friend first. The self respect quote really hit home today and I just wanted to say thanks for posting it. I am reaching a place where I need to reclaim this part of me.
Thanks and keep up your amazing work.
corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option