I have been 'laying low' for the past two weeks, no communication, nothing what so ever with my H. I pretty much believe that it's over. I deserve a man who treats me with respect, love and admiration. I still love my H, and am open to discussion, but there has been NOTHING that shows me any thread of remorse, hope, or willingness to even try.
However, I knew that he would be contacting me regarding switching vehicles for his planned camping trip next week. He emailed me today regarding this.
The question I have is this...
My H wants to exchange cars tomorrow evening... it won't work for me anyway, but he also adds that he would like both of the cars while I'm away visiting my family. My dilemma with this is that this will leave me:
A- without a car when I get back, and judging from his past behavior, I have a feeling that I won't get any vehicle back when I return.
B- I'll have no leverage, since all my belongs are still in the house. By law, he can not technically keep me from the house, but I do not wish to have a hostile situation arise, so I have been patiently waiting until it is more feasible for me to get my things.
His reasoning for having both cars is that he's not comfortable having one of them here, while no one is home. My idea (which he does not know) is that I was going to take my parents car to the airport (SUV, will fit all of us and luggage when we get back) and park my car in the garage. I worry that while I'm away, he would come and just take the car anyway, but if it's in the garage, he can't.
What would be the best way to handle this situation? I need help verbiage with a sensitive passive-aggressive, arrogant man...
