Cat- Nice thread name! Way to go! That's right, we are here to live. I know what you mean about wondering whether to find comfort here or not. I was originally in Newcomers, then Separated, then Piecing, now I'm here in Surviving D ;-, But, I've found too, that everyone is equally supportive no matter where you are on DB.
I hope you have a good birthday tomorrow too!
Me 40 H 39 2nd M- 6 months No kids Previous D, 1st M DBer from 2003