Cat- Nice thread name! Way to go!
That's right, we are here to live. I know what you mean about wondering whether to find comfort here or not. I was originally in Newcomers, then Separated, then Piecing, now I'm here in Surviving D ;-, But, I've found too, that everyone is equally supportive no matter where you are on DB.

I hope you have a good birthday tomorrow too!


Me 40
H 39
2nd M- 6 months
No kids
Previous D, 1st M
DBer from 2003