"I have moved about 75% of his things into the garage, and yet I notice some things I have moved out have made their way back into the house. WTF!!?!?"
He needed them. I suggest you put them right back where he picked them up from.
"I really don't want OW on my property. But if it is on the 16th or before I don't have much of a choice, do I? He can invite whoever he wants to his property. I don't know how to get the huge recliner out of the house. I don't know why but that is a concern of mine. "
Legally.. you may have to just accept it. Ask the L. She/He would know.
"H has been in the bedroom since 6pm (it is 1020 now!). Why isn't he with the OW? Think there is trouble brewing in the land of love? I don't know. I just know that whenever I wanted him home he was always with her. And now that I don't want him her, he won't go be with her!"
WOW.. what a difference. I got a sneaking feeling.. he does not believe you.
"3 days without crying! It is a new record for me. I don't know if I can make it through the day he chooses to move without crying. I will try, but it is going to be difficult. We bought this house together and to see him leave it will just be hard on me."
See.. you are preparing. It is going to be hard. Not a happy moment for sure. What you have to understand is.. he made this choice. The man that is putting his stuff in that truck.. is not the man you love. That is the man.. that decided he could do whatever he wanted.. and now is living with his decisions. You stood up. Maybe he will some day. I know it hurts.. and I have not "been there". Still the choice was his.
Keep your head up.. and always..
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
