"convince him of which decision...begin again...or the pool?"
You are killing me over here!! I Love ya.. but you are killing me.
He does not know.. Me and you are starting over. He should have known we were starting over when you did the deed. He does not need to know.. where we are. Now.. keep in mind.. I love ya for the change you made. This.. your WA was all about a change. You needed it. I needed it. He needed it. Somewhere in all this.. Somebody is going to be happy. I already am. So that leaves you and him. Right now.. your decision.. is all about the pool.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
