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I had a major backslide as usual, and confronted her about the receipts!


Well I see my good buddy Jack Hammer has already "brought wood" so I'll be gentle..

Yes, it was a backslide..but backslides are backslides..just try to recover. Best way to recover is just "be still" for a bit and observe.

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She then told me she is definitely going to the lawyers on friday because she did not want them to serve me on my b-day or during that weekend. I have a feeling it is for real this time and she is going ahead with it!


You really need to be quite the rest of the week..just be still and see what happens. You really don't need another backslide.

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I am just gong to back off and not have any contact what so ever. I am going to focus soley on me and my kids.


This is an excellent plan..