Quoting MPT:
The point my h made through his response to the situation was that he knew the love was a constant within our marriage. The love was the central core to our marriage. That was firmly there without question. Because of his understanding of that core, variations in behavior (including sexual interest) were the branches blowing in the wind or the leaves budding, growing, changing color, falling away and then returning. ( ) This belief is what kept him grounded, happy, friendly, and patient throughout our SS period. His attitude and behavior are what kept sex from becoming a battleground for us


Hello MPT,

I think this idea/concept is really lovely. Think I will borrow it for my sitch. Thanks.

LH