Are we? The divorce is done. Is continuing to DB just an exercise in futility? Most of the literature about getting through this ordeal suggests that you must accept the fact that the relationship is over before there can be any healing. Are we unnecessarily prolonging our suffering?
No, we are not fools. We fell in love and lost it.
We still love; not our choice really.
Yes, accept that the R is over but that does not mean giving up how we feel. Remember the R with love and forgive. That is the ticket.
Been 6 months post D and I am not there yet. But live for today and move forward and remember .....
That is the ticket.
If you only focus on accepting it is over leads to failure b/c that is our destination, not our immediate reality.
Focus instead on what a great R it was, why you were so special to have had it, and how opportunities await in our futures.
