48 hr rule, is DB...the christa rule is min. of 72 and a max of 2 weeks depending on the severity of the sitch!!!
i want him to know that if he needs something he can still count on me, i don't want him to resent me anymore than he already does because i left him with high maintenance "toys",...however, that being said, i looked up black mold which is what is wrong with the pool..H says it will need new liner and pump...net says, lower Ph, algacide, lots of scrubbing...my suspicions are H, spends too much time playing (riding HD, partying etc) and pool is on the back burner...I am torn in my decision right now, but know bulldozing the pool is not an option...however, pools are replaceable...i would think a fair suggestion would be, jointly share the cost of having a pool company come out and assess what can be done, then have said company properly close the pool, and leave him with chemicals to periodically throw under the cover...this is just one of my thoughts....random thoughts that may change in the morning as i stew over it in my sleep!
do i wish he had not responded...toss up...i wish i had cut the conversation while i was ahead...chalk that one up to lesson learned
one thing...h..very dramatic...very revengful...you did X, so i will do y and z, just to hurt you more...
he came from a house/home full of drama, full...his mom loves to stir the pot...he grew up with it...sad, sad, sad
where to go from here
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
