Wow- That's great to hear about your mediation going so well and your h is not arguing with you. I hope you can feel a little less stress for that reason. Sorry to hear that your H is acting the way he does in general. I don't think many wah know what the heck they're doing or think ahead very well.
Me 40 H 39 2nd M- 6 months No kids Previous D, 1st M DBer from 2003