FG...my thoughts...lay off a few days, restart simple texts after he has some time to decompress?

they must have worked, to get him comfortable enough to call and ask about the pool

the question being how long to let him decompress

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"