"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
Why do you have this in your signature?
If you are going to put it there.. make sure you abide by it.
You are not doing that.
"i would (i think) like to be courtious enough to help him with the issue...such as, i can help you pay for the chemicals to shut the pool down and buy a new cover that will remmedy the situation for the time being?"
Why now when you look back.. does this pop out at you? Yes.. this would have been a more effective solution. Do you have the "free" money to help him.. even if he does not need it? Do you want to help? Not because the help will make the situation better.. but because you want to?
"my R/M and keeping him sane, will come first.."
He is sane. You have no relationship or marriage to put first. Remember clean slate. Both of you. Not judging you.. but the second you WA.. you changed things. You can't fix that.. you gotta start over. New post.. New work.. don't go back to what you know. It leads you here.. moving to a different area of posting.
If you can help him with the pool.. tomorrow you text.. I will get the pool straight. And you get it straight.. everything.
I think we found the fine line.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
