i need someone here to interject with something along the lines of "if you love something set it free." originally I came on here, and was told if she needs space, give it to her. that was because she told me we might work this out. she lied because the OM spent that night at our house (and got caught). from what I have learned she hasn't been happy with me for awhile. we have seen 2 very good counselors, that have basically told me to accept this, because it takes both parties to want to work, but she is infatuated with her ex (OM). i work 3rd shift and can't watch him at night, so I moved out so he could stay in his home and she had a place to care for him. moving back in does not solve this as I can't take care of him overnight and she has no where to go. Everyone on here is telling me basically to fight her until she hates me to death, and that will win her back ? come on.....
Buster,
You seem to be simply ignoring everyone's advice until someone tells you what you WANT to do, instinctively. Not to beat you up TOO much, but where have your instincts got you so far??
You want someone to say "passively just let her go"?
OK, let her go. Let her cheat around on you, and kick her out of your own house. Keep making decisions from a position of what won't make her angry.
