FG...the pool issue...yes, it is at his house, but mine legally, in the state where i live, anything bought with inherited money, is not included in marital property...since this is where the conversation started, i would (i think) like to be courtious enough to help him with the issue...such as, i can help you pay for the chemicals to shut the pool down and buy a new cover that will remmedy the situation for the time being? i will not beat a dead horse...or get overly excited about a pool...my R/M and keeping him sane, will come first..

drama...yeah, it sucks...

need to work on raising his PMA

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"