From this post, I see you getting very bitter and basically ticked off. Maybe just desparate. I can tell you that for me, the low desire spouse, love DOES NOT equal sex. I know it makes no sense to you. To me it does. I love my husband more than anything in the entire world, he is my everything. Do I want to have sex? No. I can't explain it, I just don't.
I'm the one that read the book two weeks ago and my H and I are still doing great. 3 times since reading the book. That in itself is a divine miracle for a couple who "got busy" about 8 times a year. I am going to post a message to all the high desire people about what's in my head. It may be different from your wife's thoughts but, you just never know.
My H posts on the board to as jongo13. I will make sure he responds to this thread tonight. Maybe he has some good advice.
