Thanks Bill, wondering if you were still keeping up.
Also PD, thanks.
I'm better now. Session went well and in the end I figured why I was so mad at W. We spent all of time together this weekend with D. This was during the days....then she went off and did her thing at night. Basically I felt like I did in the past (even before all this) how we'd be a family during the day and she'd do her thing at night. All those feelings hit me again on Sunday.
But I'm clearer now. Here's my plan. Abby is starting kindergarden Aug 11th. That frees up $800 bucks a month for me in childcare. I want my MIL to find a place between now and then and I want to be a single dad here with Abby. This will also make W step up and be a mom (Abby does need one). This will also allow me to a degree to live on my own. Besides the two years from parents to W, I've lived with someone. I want this and need this.
Now to figure out how to bring it up, although C gave some sound advice. Wish I found her earlier instead of that quack W and I went to.
By the way, my 30 min lunch jog in 99 degrees helped calm me down as well.
Thanks again, Bill and PD.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)