I am listening to the advice here. I am in love with my wife, always have been, and I want to make our marriage work. its detrimental to force her to live with me. I told her today I was moving in, and she told me i had better wait til she finds a place. she does not want to live with me or be with me, however when we sit down to talk all her feelings of hurt come back and she cries and becomes vulnerable. it still saddens her to know it ended up this way. My wife does not want me back. She tells me to accept things the way they are going and that i should read the serenity prayer (accept what you can't change) I basically am requesting advice on how to win her back. Everytime i mention moving back she ends up hating me even more and makes this whole thing harder to swallow. soon neither of us will be living there, so I do not want to risk losing more in a court battle because I angered her by moving back. she gets nasty
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF