"he said he is done, he was very angry, he said he could never trust me again, i needed to let go of any idea of this working out.."
As long as he is angry.. it won't work out. Are you angry? Why is he angry? He just told you.. you left.. why now?
"i tried to explain some things.."
What did you explain? Really I need eyes on.
"he kept saying it was time for us to move on, it's been a year and a half....he could never trust me again...we are never going to be again..."
Is he still on the phone?
"he said we needed to talk more about what we want....i said i don't want a D...so there wasn't really anything to talk about...he just kept saying, there would never be a marriage between us again...i should have thought about that before i walked...i told him i just was trying to give him space to figure this out...he said he had, and there was no way he would take a gamble on me again...i caused him too much pain"
Well.. I think we know where he is now.
"oh, FG, i was not expecting this...i'm freaking out....help me! before i go nuts!"
I was expecting it on the first text message. Slow down a bit.
Lets sort it out.
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