All settled in 250 miles apart

[JWS]

oh yes! I don't believe any of what I hear and only 50% of what i see. however if she says it, then in that moment there is some truth to it in her mind, even if its misguided. Trying to understand what that is helps me to be understanding rather then angry.

I have said before that I will support her chasing her dreams even at the cost of our M, but I think you may be right it may be the only thing that saves it.

One note on the sharing the Puppy thing. The friendly email I sent her a week ago and the recent one about the wedding both asked how our pets were doing and if they needed anything. she has not replied a single thing about the pets. I know that in the real world they are not really children and i can not demand the same sort of treatment, but to us they always have been. it killed me that during her 7 week communication break she never inquired about them, but it is angering me that when I do show I care about them I get no response.