Well from a mans perspective.. if I had a woman who was texting me and I did not want her to.. I would either ignore it.. or tell her to stop. Now.. if it was causing a heartache for me.. if I was dating someone.. you can be assured she would get the stop it.. pretty quickly.
Now you gotta understand that we are throwing in there.. you two are married.. and you have been separated. It makes it a little muddy.. but not too much. You gotta go at this with the mind of "No Expectations". Kinda like the first one.. you expected him to do nothing.. and he did. Never assume to know what the other person is thinking.. always know the outcomes of your actions. I have called them "Pointed Positions". You do something that has two out comes.. the person moves closer.. the person moves away.
#1.. You are scared of doing something wrong.
Really.. there is no right or wrong thing to do. You do.. or you do not.. as Yoda says.
Don't be scared that what you do may push him away. Really.. what is the worst that could happen? He could decide to do the paper thing. He can't leave you.. you are already separated.
You gotta take small consistent steps to make a change.
No response.. at this point in the game is ok. Again.. all we are doing is getting a feel for where he is. I actually liked that he texted you had said he was having a bad day.
My group is trying to buy more TV stations. The big bosses are coming in to bring some banker thru. The facility I work in is very unique. So it tends to impress. The big bosses couldn't find out what I was doing if I showed them how.. really they don't care.. I am good at what I do.. and I make sure they are taken care of if they have a problem.. so they love me.
"it's storming here...bad...my 8 yr old pooch hates it! he's crying and shaking...i feel bad for him. he never did this at the farm, i think he misses his daddy!"
We had a pretty good storm today too. Weird weather pattern here.
Sounds like you and the dog have something in common. LOL.
Just keep the txt's light.. and consistent. Nothing to sexy.. just playful banter. All you want to do is steer him to a conversation. He just needs to know you are thinking about him.. let him chase. Delay a response here and there. Do them at off times.. (within the rules I defined in the last thread). Never at the same time everyday.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
