ANM, please don't think you offended me by calling him a dork, I think Jeanette called him worse! LOL!

I am sorry to say it is all true...sigh.

I do consider myself lucky that he is not angry anymore...but he is now feeling immense guilt and that is a pain in the a$$. Either way, I guess..

I am sorry your XH still lashes out so after the fact..still, d is so many times NOT final really...just a piece of paper.

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller