You do what you wanna do, I leave it all up to you

[Sugar and Spice]

His reply to that last question was to get mad and say that he wasn't going to listen to anymore of this and he had to go. BYE!!!!!!

I'm going to speak to my Dad tonight and tell him everything and let him guide me on what to do. My thought process is this. File for LS and in the good faith agreement, ask for everything that I want (ie: everyting he has already promised me - the 401K, his retirement and to pay for my schooling). Once the LS is filed I wait 30 days or how ever long it takes to come to an agreement on the good faith agreement and then file that judgement (that puts it on record in the courts eyes) then if things ever work out, I can cancel the LS, if we end up getting a D, then I just modify the LS to a D.

I'm not trying to be vindictive, I'm not trying to get over on him, I am just wanting to hold him to everything he has said he would give me...

Dar, Cali works the same way. She who files first gets most. Thats why I need to get this done, because there isn't a whole lot of time left and I want to be well out of the splatter range when the chit hits the fan.

I'll keep you all posted and thanks sooooo much for all of your support.

That theres no "us" comment really took me a long way today.