It's amazing how you can be feeling fine, and then some small thing - seeing a happy couple in the supermarket, a commercial, or an episode of a sitcom - can send you into a wave of sadness. I no longer like to watch "Two and a Half men" because of the number of episodes in which they deal with the younger brother's situation w/his wife. One thing I noticed is that song lyrics seem more pointed.
Someone suggested I watch "Swingers" because is it is a classic comedy, and as soon as I realized that the main character has MY name and that the woman who dumped him has MY WIFE'S name, I couldn't enjoy the flick any more. I switched to "Dodgeball." Not as erudite, but less likely to bring forth bad memories - except from gym class ;-)
This process may be normal, but it sure hurts like hell sometimes.
Me: 47 Kids: 2 boys, 14 & 8 Bomb: 5/5/08 Married: 16 years, together 20 Divorce final 8/11/10 I remarried, to an amazing woman: 3/17/12... "Once in awhile, in an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale"
