toruble on the the lake erie shore...#4!

[Neilh23]

Sandi, no we are not dating. I honestly i'm not ready to date her yet. i have too much other crap to work out for myself. LOL

Thats the tough part.....the LL with gifts, because that's part of hers. I don't want to pursue, but things are on a good note as of late.........

i'm still thinking about ways to be affirming to her, without it being about our sitch, and making it a little personal, but not too much. i'm a guy, i'm not that wise. LOL

she said awhile ago that it makes her feel weird when i complimented her (like a month ago)...i did the other day, and it went over ok (she didn't say it made her feel weird). She is noticing the behavior changes i've made...and is commenting on them. SO i take that as a good sign

all in all, i'm just looking for way to be affirming and pursuing without making it seem like i am....LOL

i'm picking my kids up early tommorrow as she has to go into work....i'm htinking about getting her a french cap from tim hortons....her fav.......haven't done that in almost 2 months..LOL.....