Mike, don't try to project into the future! I did the same thing and spent most days a nervous wreck over a case of the "what if's".
Things can change in a second! My story...H and I went to court and had another court date 3 weeks later to discuss what we were going to do about the house. Within 5 days of the first court date and not talking to H at all he marched up to me at my D's tball game and out of the blue...LITERALLY out of the blue...told me he did not want our marriage to end and wanted to work on things.
You don't know me but I am never short on words. H left me speechless.
When you project you drive yourself crazy...take one day at a time. I remember telling my C that I wish I could just turn off the hurt...she said it is a natural process and we all need to go through it. If you feel bad in the morning that is OK...you are doing well at shaking it off and getting on with your day!!
Congrats on the job offer...things will go your way!!
