Probably because half of the mess is caused by their desire to get away from their own life and commitments and responsibilites. And I bet he's feeling damn trapped right about now by his new ones - except they're new, which makes them slightly more bearable to his miserably confused mind.
Don't bother asking him. He doesn't know honey.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2