Somehow I missed this post. I am so happy to hear that your X got what he deserved. My friends have told me throughout these 4 years that the kids will see what the truth is and eventually H will be the loser. Throughout the D process everything went his way. He continues to lash out at me and tries to get me to react most of the time. I don't anymore and through much prayer and many changes in me, the latest round of hearings are not necessarily going the way he wants them to. My issues with H are not nearly as bad as your. H is still deep in MLC and the only way he knows to "hang on" to me and keeping a connection is through anger. God has his way in the end always. Good luck on your "new beginning"
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
