Divorce Decree Arrived Today - Need Expert Help

[kat727]

Scott, I wish I had miracle words for you but I don't. She is in her fog and that is where she will stay until she finally accepts reality. As far as the money goes, you could handle it one of two ways 1) write a check out to the people she says she owes and mail it to them and then deduct that from what her child support would be or 2) give her the child support money and when it is gone it is gone, no more coming from you. If she can't handle that tell her you would gladly keep the girls or split time so there wouldn't need to be child support from your end anyway.

As far as the divorce, I feel your pain. I am in the same place. I can't stop it and have accepted that it will happen(probably in the next few days for me) but don't use that as a reason to stop working on you and getting yourself in a better place. This is about you and the girls now, your W is spending enough time on herself for the both of you.

Hugs

kat