That said, I'm not sure I know how to let go and it not be quitting. It took a long time for me to learn doing nothing is doing something. Maybe I haven't learned that lesson after all.
sounds about right.
To take an extreme case:
let's say you're building a boat (a small one ) in your back yard. you work on it every weekend. you get it half built.
Then for a while, you get tired of working on it. So...you do something else with your weekends for a while.
Have you "quit"? no. you're just not working on it for a while. you QUIT... when you haul the thing out to the local landfill, and/or have a very large bonfire.
That's the difference.
Last edited by Dom R; 07/08/0809:43 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
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