I've ust seem a power and contol wheel (pretty much highlights where men can control women n a relationship)
Guess what - I can see my behaviour in just about all the areas. I now realise all the comments W has made about our R were to do with control.
I never wanted to be a controlling person
It wasn't conscious - it just happened - it will never happen again with anyone - I can see why my W is so absolutely against risking getting into the same sitch with me.
Although I've realised and changed my behaviour (or me) I don't see how my W can ever get over it and be my life partner again.
I think a degree of progressing other man is do put as much a barrier as possible between her and our R.
Feeling very lost.
I've lost everything important to me - my children our hurt - my wife is hurt and pretty much It's my fault.
Don't really see how this can be recovered to how it could be = happy family unit living together.
Feeling sorry myself and lost all hope at the moment
