ok well i got an update we are at the beach with our friends and things are going great. we have been flirting some. i know that i should try and be friends first but she has been wanting to have sex almost every night. and mess around some during the day when the kids are napping and nobdy is around. its like im having an affair with my W. the W wont do anything in front of anybody and she still wont let me kiss her on her mouth. i think that is because she feels real strongly about kissing. she is being nice to me and flirting infront of everybody which i guess is a good thing. we have gotten drunk together and she still keeps her distance until everyone goes to bed and then it is usally on. why does she do this and what should i do about it? i dont want to push her ferther awaybut at the same time i dont want her to think it is ok that its just a sex thing. do i contiue letting this go on until she is ready to talk about the M. i do want to give her more effection in front of everyone but she does not want that right now. she insists its just sex. well we got the rest of the week and she does seem to be slowly opening up in front of the friends but im not sure i should read into it to much. anyway i would like all of your thoughts again and it will help me alot if i could get some help on this. what do i do next? thanks in advance,mike
