Smartcookie - I saw that you googled divorce - but what made you decide that there was something worth saving? How did that happen for you? It sounds like I'm looking for a solution to the puzzling emotions of my W - and maybe I am - but I also just want to keep the hope going that somewhere inside her is the woman that loves our family - and that isn't so damaged by her darkness...she's an amazing person - I miss that person so much. -sb.
