I can really understand how you feel, I seem to have gotten into a similar state. I feel like no matter what I do I won't be able to influence the situation in a positive manner or to help her. If there's one thing that really hurts, its knowing there's nothing I can do for the woman I love other than to just completely give up and move on. Maybe then she'll be able to loose all the fear and hurt that seems to dominate her feelings.
All we can do is take care of ourselves so that's what we need to focus on once again.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
