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Re: need help with email response redsawks44 #1509442 07/08/08 03:17 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	I think that was a good middle ground. Sounds like you had a really nice trip. $\:\)$ Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: need help with email response MichelleLT #1509977 07/08/08 07:45 PM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 679 R redsawks44 OP Member
OP redsawks44 Member R Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 679	Originally Posted By: MichelleLT I think that was a good middle ground. Sounds like you had a really nice trip. $\:\)$ I think my wife found a link while she was snooping thru my email (i snooped thru hers)... i'll be busted ahhhhh... suggestions? can lurkers read posts here?

Re: need help with email response redsawks44 #1509988 07/08/08 07:49 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: redsawks44 can lurkers read posts here? Yep. If she knows you are here, and your name, she knows it all! Last edited by dry_heat; 07/08/08 07:49 PM.

Re: need help with email response Virtually_Handsome #1509998 07/08/08 07:55 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	What was the link to? Do you think she'll find your thread? Could you edit your signature to be a little less personal? And finally, do you REALLY care if she finds it? I mean, she'll probably be mad at first, but it does show you care lol. Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: need help with email response MichelleLT #1510003 07/08/08 07:59 PM
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The Wifey Member T Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 2,306 Upstate NY	The perfume and body spray and ecard were all good. If she found a link so be it. Don't say a word. How could she complain to see you are doing what you can to DB. It might even surprise her, in a good way. Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

Re: need help with email response The Wifey #1510006 07/08/08 08:00 PM
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The Wifey Member T Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 2,306 Upstate NY	Of course, if she brings it up, you tell her you were looking for support and direction and you found it. Unless she wants to pursue it further or is curious about what you've learned, drop it at that. Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

Re: need help with email response The Wifey #1510028 07/08/08 08:18 PM
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LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	I agree. Tell her it is what it is..a support group that is teaching you how to learn and grow and be a better spouse. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: need help with email response Virtually_Handsome #1510521 07/09/08 02:24 AM
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OP redsawks44 Member R Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 679	Originally Posted By: dry_heat Originally Posted By: redsawks44 can lurkers read posts here? Yep. If she knows you are here, and your name, she knows it all! my name says it all ... ha... not a hard one if u knew me personally.. i am not sure she knows of this place, but i do know she snooped on me and found that i bought the books(DR and DB) and 3 sessions with a coach.... don't ask me how i just know it .. the perfume and body spray will be left on the island when i get home at 1 AM tonight..(tomorrow morn)..i am not scared for her to find out.. it is ok.. just that wasn't part of the plan!

Re: need help with email response redsawks44 #1511005 07/09/08 02:02 PM
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The Wifey Member T Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 2,306 Upstate NY	What WA works by a plan? My guess is they don't plan, they feel and then they act. Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

Re: need help with email response The Wifey #1511062 07/09/08 02:57 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Lol. But by virtue of the teeter totter theory of relationships, if the WAS doesn't plan, does that mean the LBS must? $;\)$ Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

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