I've been reading your threads and must say I think you are getting some excellent input from others here! I have been contemplating contacting my H's MOW or her H and after reading the advice here have decided to leave things alone!
I understand your frustration with your H popping in and out and with no solid answers for you! You sound like you are detaching well even though your H is making it difficult for you!
Hang in there!
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Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
