you're spot on darling ! (in my best british accent).
I am grateful. He just came in to get some paper, I said "have I told you today that I love you?" He set his paper down, came over kissed me, & started to leave the room without his paper. lol I said "paper", he said "see what you do to me".
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.