ms ladybug SQUISHED (3)

[pisces9]

i hear ya Ms. L- I think space is good right now- have you spoken to a DB coach? the 1st part of reconciliation is getting rid of negative emotions-that is all your H is dong and you need to be able to take whatever he throws at you, with nothing in return. another one that helped me was ACT AS IF i can handle whatever he needs to say or do. i have detached a lot too. i am not sayng i am a pro an di dont even know whats happeneing- what is did do for me was STOP the pain. i have my days and call my friends but all he sees is happiness and calmness. not easy.