I can also agree that your H is on your side. As scared as you can be I am sure that he is just as scared. To lose someone once is such an ordeal and not one you want to go through more then once. Sometimes I need a direct line approach with what my wife needs, because sometimes we are such dolts. Keep up the communication with him, I know he is there for you.
Thank you yenko, I believe he is on my side. I believe the fear I'm fighting is old fear. I believe it's not warranted in this relationship. I'm just trying to be open & honest with the fear & get it out of the closet that it's hidden in for my whole life so that it will stop lingering in my thoughts & affecting my present. I appreciate you posting to me.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
