I never claimed to be an expert. : ) Ever.
I know what worked for me and my wife, others loft me to that very unenviable and uncomfortable position.

If I tell you what do to, you learn nothing, if you figure out what you should do then its yours for the rest of your life.

Give a man a fish or teach a man to fish.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet