Changing my perspective...2

[cat03]

jeez, talk about a control freak

[kikifree]

Hi Steelers and Cat,

Thanks for popping by.

Yes it is control. I do think H just wanted me to hurt with his last words. It made me realize..He is angry at ????????

When Do I see or hear from him now????

Like Plenty said emotional blackmail. He needed to say something that he thought would hurt.
It didn't because I already felt that way.
My limit is reached.
And Like Jeanette said, it is up to me to keep the boundary.

[Maya44]

Kiki,

Once you're hurt enough times, it stops hurting doesn't it? They don't seem to think it does though.

I hope you're doing well!

HUGS!

[kikifree]

You are absolutely right. The wound doesn't get any deeper.

I know I didn't DB the right way. But my H is a strange H.

He needs my strong hand sometimes.

[Jeanette1120]

No,

You need your strong hand sometimes.

This way he will take you serious as your now going to stand behind your words.

This will give you the Upper Hand as well as the strong hand

Remember Kiki, sometimes when you save yourself your actually saving both of you from continuing with the blame game.

You stop it, hopefully he will follow suit.

Make sense?

Hard to do? Of course it is, but nothing worth having is easy. LOL, at least not as far as I have found.

Are you ready for your trip??

ALONE?

[kikifree]

Jeanette, you always know what to say.

Tes, I am ready for the trip. Lots of me time.

Iknow he thought I would falll to the ground with his last statement but I still stand strong.

Shhhhh...going to the library!

[Jeanette1120]

Goodmorning Keekers!!

How was your brief Holiday??

Guess what??

The world has become even smaller it seems.

I have Magistrate Lopane too!!

Hope all went well and can't wait to talk to you!!

Hugs,

Jeanette

[MidwesternGirl]

Kiki:

How are you doing?

[Cinderellaman]

HI Kiki ! Just checking in too ....xxx