how terrible to be afraid all the time. And you appear to be so needy and about wanting attention all the time too.
It seems that you have all the power now and if your H makes one false move, he's toast. I'll bet that no matter what,there will always be something that he does wrong. How awful that he has to be so hyper-vigilant.
I feel sorry for him.
I'm guessing this is how your H makes you feel ? If so, I'm very sorry that you're hurting.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
