Cinders, you have a point them...BFM has a good point too...

So, I must stop obsessing and have no expectations at all...so hard when I married this person and expected to be with him all the days of my life...

I will continue to pray, meditate and remain as calm as I can...and to have NO expectations at all.

thank you, sweets...

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller