Dom, he ASKED me what I thought he should change. I didn't bring it up, I didn't feel like I could bring it up. But, he asked. After each thing I brought up, he'd say "what else do you want?" I also told him what I was willing to change. I told him again that if we went to mc I would do whatever it is that the counselor suggests. He says he doesn't believe me based on our prior mc sessions (long before the sep). I told him he was right, I didn't listen and that I was sorry that I caused him hurt.
pisces, this isn't what I want. I don't think h wants this either. But, like cat said, I DO need some peace. I need to not get yelled at over an unfolded hand-towel. I need to not walk on egg-shells for awhile.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
