Jeff, if that doesn't hit her like a ton of bricks, nothing is going to. You'll know then that something is REALLY wrong with her. The kids are way better off with you. I am glad that I CAN'T say the same about my wife.
This past Sunday, she said, "I know that at least, I have been a great parent. I can even say that I was a good wife up until about 4 years ago."
I wanted to tell her, "What your doing right now ain't gonna win you no Mother of the Year Awards."