Upside thank you for post! I think you are right...I think that him NOT being there when Torito died and I had my surgery really DOES make him feel his guilt acutely.

You are also right when you say I have no idea what the future has in store as well...

Yes, I must let it go, once again and see what happens...


sigh....

V

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller