Well, shes giving you the chances, who can blame you for responding? Its your sitch and you know it best. As long as you have really changed and you are not just saying what she wants to hear in order to get her back. It has to be genuine and not just manouevering, but you seem to have done a tonne of work in C so I guess she is picking up on that.
I think its safe to say the snake IS out of the picture.
I also think its a shame that these convos are happening by text message, is there any way you could suggest a meeting, not to discuss the R, but to reestablish a friendship (which you dont have at the moment), you cant skip that step I guess! Could you meet as a family, go for lunch? Instead of all this dropping off D? Or meet her for coffee without your D?
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread