I can also agree that your H is on your side. As scared as you can be I am sure that he is just as scared. To lose someone once is such an ordeal and not one you want to go through more then once. Sometimes I need a direct line approach with what my wife needs, because sometimes we are such dolts. Keep up the communication with him, I know he is there for you.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
