phil, you need to stop blaming your wife . you are still angry at her , that is obvious. mlc'ers are in a fog, everything is about them. realize that, let her focus on herself, let her work it out, you cannot do it for her. reread divorce remedy if you have read it before. there will also be a reckoning for you on how you handle this. when i get discouraged, i think about my kids, and my wife.i think about the goal.i think aboout what i will lose if the divorce goes through. then i realize my part in this and pray for more patience and strength. my wife and kids are worth dealing with this. love your wife unconditionally. until you do, you will continue to fail.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
