I so agree with ALL. Why would you even consider giving him this extra time? Besides, you will be out of state, so making sure he follows through would be inconvenient to say the least. Besides, I would never go through with the divorce or leave with my name on anything. I hope you've already gotten to work on any joint line of credit and gotten them changes.

This is your chance at a clean slate & a new life. Don't let him screw it up for you.

Love,
Bethie