Very interesting perspective. The way you put it makes it seem less like beating a dead horse and more like being open to the to the idea that walking instead of riding may not be so bad.
Continuing to heal seems to be the theme. My therapist thinks that the healing process does not begin until we admit that the relationship is over. I see what you mean, however, about things not necessarily being so black and white.
Me: 35 WAW: 28 Bomb: 1/13/08 S: 1/14/08 D filed: 2/24/08 D final on 7/07/08
Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton
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